G spot is a tiny area in the genital area of women behind the pubic bone and surrounding the urethra. For many women, it's a highly sensitive and highly erotic area that provides hours of pleasure. For others it's a knobbly bit that, when touched too much, creates an overwhelming feeling of needing a wee. Some women cannot feel any sensation at all while others do not seem to have one at all. There are many different theories about what the G-spot area actually is. One view is that it is an area of prostatic tissue alike to the male prostate. The absence of the Y chromosome in the developing female fetus stores the cells in a similar location and voila the G-spot. Complete with a similar nature of sensitivity to the male prostate

Another expert agrees with the prostate theory but expands it to say that this isn’t the only reason for sensitivity. He points to the urethra and the clitoris as other sources of pleasure, both of which can be stimulated via the front wall of the vagina. Therefore there are most erogenous zones and we should stop seeking the elusive g-spot and instead rename it the anterior wall erogenous complex catchy! Another expert who was the first one to be responsible for publicizing the G-spot has just discovered another use. In research she has shown that stimulation of the G-spot area can increase pain threshold by up to 47%. If the stimulation is arousing, the pain threshold increases by up to 84% and a massive 107% on orgasm. Her hypothesis is that this sensitive and erogenous area is one of nature’s natural painkillers for childbirth. Basically, we still do not know for sure - but the important thing is to find out what you have got and what you like. Once you have established whether you have got one or not, you need to discover whether you’ve one that gives you pleasure or just feels a bit annoying. Stroking is usually the more enjoyable form of stimulation.

Sexual virtuosos recommend inserting the forefinger to about the second knuckle and making a come here action towards the front vaginal wall. You will need to experiment with pressure and length of stroke to find out what feels best for you. It's important that you are sexually aroused first, and also worth noting that many women say that sensitivity varies throughout the month.

During stimulation, the first sensation might be the need to go to the restroom, possibly because the G-spot is on the front wall so your bladder is being pressed. You can check this out by making sure your bladder's empty first then considering how it feels. The first couple of times it might be a bit odd, but many women say a little urgency is more than worth it. Feeling it during intercourse Depending on the size and exact location of your G-spot, you may or may not be able to feel stimulation during intercourse. You are most likely to feel something if you raise your pelvis. Another popular position is to be on all fours or bending over from a standing position and allowing penetration from behind.

Stimulating the G-spot will always be a topic of great interest to lover’s world wide. Learning to stimulate your partner well can only be done with the help of good communication.