In very simple terms, the premature ejaculation is defined as the condition when the man ejaculates too soon, that is, before the female partner or indeed, he himself has arrived at a sexual climax. When this happens, there is a lot of dissatisfaction from the sexual act, which could lead to frustrations and even issues between the married partners. Statistics reveal that premature ejaculation is indeed one of the most important sexual incompatibility causes for divorces in the world today. There are two basic types of premature ejaculation, the first thing is primary premature ejaculation, where the man has suffered from premature ejaculation all through his life, i.e. one who has never ejaculated after prolonged sex. The other type is– what most men of the world are suffering from, it is called as secondary premature ejaculation. This is time when the man ejaculates prematurely later in life due to some inner condition.

Though premature ejaculation occurs in men of most ages, young men are more prone to suffer from this disease. The main cause behind this could be the inexperience of the young men indulging in various sex acts. The excitement and the frenzy associated with the first few sexual encounters of a man’s life can also cause the ejaculation to be pretty premature. This is the reason why most women prefer older men, as men grow older, they learn better the tricks of self control and this makes them hold out better and let go only when they are sure their female partners have reached their own sexual climax.

In some cultures, premature ejaculation is thought to be more prevalent than in others, this is because of sexual taboos that children are made to grow up with. These young boys mature thinking that masturbation is some kind of a dirty act. Hence, when they get the urge they may masturbate quickly in the bathroom or in some corner place, hidden for the fear of being found out. Naturally, they ejaculate very soon. This habit does tend to remain with them when they grow up, and they develop conditions of premature ejaculation.

Yoga is also known to be one of the most effective methods of solving problems of premature ejaculation. There are several asanas, which teach mind control, by which a man can prolonged the pleasures that he receives from sex. Methods to relieve the mind from stress are being very commonly applied by men today, and this has direct correlation with the quest to find a solution to premature ejaculation. This explains why couples after marriage do go to a secluded place for their honeymoons. Such places can help the couple to come close and become more comfortable with each other and hence have a stress-free first sexual encounter. Doctors do advocate men suffering from premature ejaculation to take their partners out on a holiday.

Finally, it must be remembered that premature ejaculation is something that is in the mind and nothing more. As every person ejaculates at different times during different sexual encounters, and hence what time period qualifies for premature ejaculation is a highly debatable topic. Most men may ejaculate under one minute and some times and have a prolonged sexual session some other time. Hence, premature ejaculation is thought to be a highly relative issue.