Sex is essential for men, women and for the society. Sex and life cannot be divided. As long as there is life there is sex. But sex has many complications attached to it. To enjoy complete and safe sex you must keep the following tips in mind.

Talk sex before having sex: To talk about sex, before having sex gives you the actual pleasure of sex as you feel the touch of love and not just sex. Be straightforward about your sexual intentions and help to know what you anticipate from each other. You should let your partner know your desire and the limit of sexual relationship.

Do not have undesired sex: Abstain from each other when you do not feel like having sex. Never have sex just to please your partner. Having sex under stress may create problems for you. Moreover it is your own life and you have your right of choice.

Have safe sex: It is very important that whenever you have sex play safe. Whether it is your regular partner or strangers have protected sex. There are many different birth control alternatives to prevent you from being pregnant. You can use any alternative according to your health and comfort level. There are various types of pills, barrier methods and injections. It is true that birth control methods have side effects and many complications. It is therefore a must to talk to your health care person before you go for that particular method. Always remember that only the use of condoms protects you from both pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STD).

Never have sex when drunk: Many of the cases of unwanted pregnancy are seen when couples have sex when they are drunk. Alcohol makes the alcoholic person’s brain numb. You loose the power to think and make improper decisions. More than 90% of pregnancies are unplanned under the influence of alcohol. This is usually seen amongst teenagers. They get drunk and have unprotected sex, most of the times they said that they never thought of having sex it was just under the influence of alcohol.

Play safe carry condoms: Whenever you are attending a party, gathering or meeting your partner carry condoms, the best way for safe sex. It not only protects from pregnancy but also gives protection from STD’s. Make sure you have condoms in your pocket as any moment you would feel like having sex, may be under the influence of alcohol.

Always Question: There is no problem in questioning your sex partner about having undergone a HIV test. Make sure that your sex partner has undergone an HIV test particularly when he or she is a stranger. Whatever may the case be safe.

Learn to use condoms properly: Before you have sex, learn to use the condom properly and carefully. Talk about it with your friends and nearest persons and learn from them, never feel shy. Many people both men and women feel shy or embarrassed to ask about using a condom. But we should be aware of the proper way of wearing a condom otherwise it will create problems afterwards.